- to rest in Abba's arms
- to trust He is in control no matter what the storm is around me
- to release my children - we raised them to love the Lord, not it is in their hands - God does NOT have grandchildren
- to claim the promises in Psalm 139 - I AM beautifully and wonderfully made
Friday, December 31, 2010
Peace
So 2010 is about over. It has been a good year. This is probably the most peaceful I have ever been in my entire life. These are some of the things I am learning:
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Busy, Busy December
What an amazing month this has been. God is so good to us.
On the 11th of December we had the privilege of serving in south Phoenix - bringing Christmas to folks who have so very little. With David's friend Carlos we were able to share with so many families the love of Jesus. We were so proud of David. He brought about a dozen of his friends to help out. God's hand is on David.
The following week we were faced with a major decision. Jay phoned us - he and his girlfriend broke up - he had no where to live..... After some deep prayer and discussion David put is best - how can we help others and not help our own family? Of course God confirmed our decision one evening when Brian and I read 1 Timothy 5:8 - "If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." Thank you Jesus.
Christmas has been a series of get togethers with family and friends. We are so blessed, having our children together and all of them are doing good.
Christmas Eve Brian, David and I served two services at church. David in his normal spot - kindergarden to third grade. Brian and I were in the preschool - so much fun. Little Addie who was there for both services has the biggest crush on Brian. He will make a great grandpa in God's time!
Today was sad though. David and I went to Tasha and Sprae's home to clean the backyard. They are moving to Tennessee. We are going to miss them something fierce, especially Zeke. Our love and prayers are with them.
We are so excited to see where God takes us in 2011. God is good to us.
On the 11th of December we had the privilege of serving in south Phoenix - bringing Christmas to folks who have so very little. With David's friend Carlos we were able to share with so many families the love of Jesus. We were so proud of David. He brought about a dozen of his friends to help out. God's hand is on David.
The following week we were faced with a major decision. Jay phoned us - he and his girlfriend broke up - he had no where to live..... After some deep prayer and discussion David put is best - how can we help others and not help our own family? Of course God confirmed our decision one evening when Brian and I read 1 Timothy 5:8 - "If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." Thank you Jesus.
Christmas has been a series of get togethers with family and friends. We are so blessed, having our children together and all of them are doing good.
Christmas Eve Brian, David and I served two services at church. David in his normal spot - kindergarden to third grade. Brian and I were in the preschool - so much fun. Little Addie who was there for both services has the biggest crush on Brian. He will make a great grandpa in God's time!
Today was sad though. David and I went to Tasha and Sprae's home to clean the backyard. They are moving to Tennessee. We are going to miss them something fierce, especially Zeke. Our love and prayers are with them.
We are so excited to see where God takes us in 2011. God is good to us.
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Stocking Stuffing
For about eight or ten years we have had the pleasure of being involved with Americans for a Better Tomorrow. This Christian organization gives families a hand up - not a hand out.
Today was the stocking stuffing. We stuffed 1,200 stockings with candy, coloring books, crayons, popcorn, a stuffed animal and a book about Jesus. For some children - this is the only Christmas they will have. They will be given out next Saturday at the Family Fun Fest.
My friends Cutter (7) and Tanner (5) went with me today. This two guys worked their behinds off. To get there we drove through some pretty run down areas - I had the opportunity to explain some of the stockings may go to children who live in these houses. What a privilege to share this experience with my young friends.
At times like this - sitting in my beautiful home, listening to Christian music and children playing, our tree lit, our bills paid - I am most blessed. My heart aches for my brothers and sisters who have less - but in reality, their joy comes from Jesus - the peace in their eyes....perhaps we are the ones who are missing out.
God is very good.
Today was the stocking stuffing. We stuffed 1,200 stockings with candy, coloring books, crayons, popcorn, a stuffed animal and a book about Jesus. For some children - this is the only Christmas they will have. They will be given out next Saturday at the Family Fun Fest.
My friends Cutter (7) and Tanner (5) went with me today. This two guys worked their behinds off. To get there we drove through some pretty run down areas - I had the opportunity to explain some of the stockings may go to children who live in these houses. What a privilege to share this experience with my young friends.
At times like this - sitting in my beautiful home, listening to Christian music and children playing, our tree lit, our bills paid - I am most blessed. My heart aches for my brothers and sisters who have less - but in reality, their joy comes from Jesus - the peace in their eyes....perhaps we are the ones who are missing out.
God is very good.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Wonderful Weekend
We had a wonderful Thanksgiving that actually started on Wednesday evening when we went out to celebrate our 21st anniversary. It was good. I just adore spending time with Brian. He is not only my husband and best friend, but I actually like him!!
Thanksgiving brought all the children plus their spouse/girlfriends plus Grandma plus Kylene plus Joey. It was good to have all the children together - and they all were getting along!! Perhaps not seeing each other as much does that.....
Brian and I were up early for shopping on Friday - 4:50am we were standing in front of a store.... just in case one of our nosy children is trying to figure out what we bought - we are keeping all locations secret!! We ended up at four different stores in a matter of four hours!! The last one was ToysRUs, shopping was so much easier when they were small. Cool thing - we are pretty much done, now we can enjoy the holidays and celebrate Jesus' birth.
Friday evening we randomly hooked up with my Mom to walk through Glendale Glitters - it was beautiful and fun. The only challenge - Brian and my Mom ganged up on me to get mini-donuts. There are times I wonder if Brian goes to these things just to eat the food!!
Back to work - will be a long week but we are both blessed to have solid jobs. God is good.
Thanksgiving brought all the children plus their spouse/girlfriends plus Grandma plus Kylene plus Joey. It was good to have all the children together - and they all were getting along!! Perhaps not seeing each other as much does that.....
Brian and I were up early for shopping on Friday - 4:50am we were standing in front of a store.... just in case one of our nosy children is trying to figure out what we bought - we are keeping all locations secret!! We ended up at four different stores in a matter of four hours!! The last one was ToysRUs, shopping was so much easier when they were small. Cool thing - we are pretty much done, now we can enjoy the holidays and celebrate Jesus' birth.
Friday evening we randomly hooked up with my Mom to walk through Glendale Glitters - it was beautiful and fun. The only challenge - Brian and my Mom ganged up on me to get mini-donuts. There are times I wonder if Brian goes to these things just to eat the food!!
Back to work - will be a long week but we are both blessed to have solid jobs. God is good.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Holidays
So hard to believe the holidays are upon us. This is going to be a different year. Thanksgiving will be at our home and ALL three children will be here with their spouse/girlfriend. It will be good.
Christmas, on the other hand, is going to be amazingly fun. Thus far, we have four different family holiday times planned. Add to that parties we are invited to, celebrations are the office and some of the special stuff we want to do just the two of us......
Through all of this the most important thing we will keep in mind - this is the celebration of Jesus' birth. Logically we know it was sometime in the spring but since this is when it is celebrated - we will rejoice that the Creator of the Universe loves us so much that He chose to be born in human form, die on a cross and then rise from the dead.
God is so good.
Christmas, on the other hand, is going to be amazingly fun. Thus far, we have four different family holiday times planned. Add to that parties we are invited to, celebrations are the office and some of the special stuff we want to do just the two of us......
Through all of this the most important thing we will keep in mind - this is the celebration of Jesus' birth. Logically we know it was sometime in the spring but since this is when it is celebrated - we will rejoice that the Creator of the Universe loves us so much that He chose to be born in human form, die on a cross and then rise from the dead.
God is so good.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Wonderful Weekend
We had a wonderful weekend - topped off by David coming home!!
While we staying in Laughlin (free!) we tried to see the Mitchell Caverns but their generator was broken so we didn't get to see them though we hiked out there and peeked through the bars. We will go back.
We do think we may have found our perfect home - just needs a few touch ups.....
God is so good to us. Can't wait to see where He will lead us next.
While we staying in Laughlin (free!) we tried to see the Mitchell Caverns but their generator was broken so we didn't get to see them though we hiked out there and peeked through the bars. We will go back. We drove over the new bridge over the Colorado River by the Hoover Dam - you couldn't see much but we can say we did it.
We also went to Chloride. These murals are about two miles out of town. We met some other folks - which is always great for pictures!! We wandered through the cemetary too. Such amazing history.
We do think we may have found our perfect home - just needs a few touch ups.....
God is so good to us. Can't wait to see where He will lead us next.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Changes
God has been so good to us. Over the past few months, I/Brian has been looking into changing careers back to insurance. Back in August I had been talking with another officer at work and as the small world would have it, his wife was the Catastrophe Manager for a local insurance company that I did work for during the hurricanes. This company has always been good to me and I enjoyed the interaction of the adjusters at this company.
During my conversation the officer called his wife and asked if she remembered the name to which she replied "yes" he worked as a contract adjuster, sure wish he was doing claims now. Well I forwarded my resume and indicated that should anything develop that fits my qualifications or knowledge, I would investigate the possibility. Well Monday evening I received an email indicating she had forwarded my resume to the recruiter for an interview with a current opening. Today I interviewed and although the questions were tough, I felt all in the entire interview went quite well.
The hours would be better and the salary is slightly higher than what I am currently making. Just last week I passed up a job that would have involved a pay cut and felt that it was pushing where God wanted me to be. So after continued prayer I got the special call for a better position. Now we just wait and pray God's will on the situation.
Vicki and I are going to visit Mitchell Caverns and spend time together for our 21st anniversary. God has blessed me with an awesome woman of God and one who has stood by me through the poor decisions I have made over time. I pray God will continue to bless us with LOTS more years and we can enjoy each others company even more as the days pass. I love you Vicki thanks for always being there.
During my conversation the officer called his wife and asked if she remembered the name to which she replied "yes" he worked as a contract adjuster, sure wish he was doing claims now. Well I forwarded my resume and indicated that should anything develop that fits my qualifications or knowledge, I would investigate the possibility. Well Monday evening I received an email indicating she had forwarded my resume to the recruiter for an interview with a current opening. Today I interviewed and although the questions were tough, I felt all in the entire interview went quite well.
The hours would be better and the salary is slightly higher than what I am currently making. Just last week I passed up a job that would have involved a pay cut and felt that it was pushing where God wanted me to be. So after continued prayer I got the special call for a better position. Now we just wait and pray God's will on the situation.
Vicki and I are going to visit Mitchell Caverns and spend time together for our 21st anniversary. God has blessed me with an awesome woman of God and one who has stood by me through the poor decisions I have made over time. I pray God will continue to bless us with LOTS more years and we can enjoy each others company even more as the days pass. I love you Vicki thanks for always being there.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Running
This afternoon I (Vicki) had an interesting conversation with one of our children. One who continues to run away from God rather than into His arms.
As I listened, it was interesting to see all the excuses he came up with for his life (of sin). The funny thing - I wasn't asking questions nor was I saying much. One thing I have learned is to be still and listen. The longer the conversation went - the more agitated he became. So, I prayed silently. As he wound down - I reminded him of how amazing he is (Psalm 139) and how much his Dad and I love him.
Walking in the door I saw our child who is running straight into the arms of God. He is so excited about how God is going to use him. He is so pumped to serve.
Perhaps that is one of the choices we make in life - do we run away from God or do we run straight into His arms of love?
As I listened, it was interesting to see all the excuses he came up with for his life (of sin). The funny thing - I wasn't asking questions nor was I saying much. One thing I have learned is to be still and listen. The longer the conversation went - the more agitated he became. So, I prayed silently. As he wound down - I reminded him of how amazing he is (Psalm 139) and how much his Dad and I love him.
Walking in the door I saw our child who is running straight into the arms of God. He is so excited about how God is going to use him. He is so pumped to serve.
Perhaps that is one of the choices we make in life - do we run away from God or do we run straight into His arms of love?
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Haiti
David is headed to Haiti. 90% of me is so excited for him. 10% is scared to death. It would have been better if they had not been an outbreak of chlorea. But, Dad to the rescue, we now have a filtration system that is pretty nifty.
Yesterday he called his Colorado Grandpa and Grandma to tell them thank you for the support check they sent - after he got off the phone he was literally dancing around the house. It makes us joyful to see our child excited to jump out of his comfort zone. (Note: this is making Dad and Mom jump out of their comfort zone also!).
As we have been praying over the last few weeks it has been good to see David grow in his relationship with the Lord. Part of me is not sure Haiti is ready for him!!! We pray also for the children he will interact with, that they will capture the joy of the Lord.
Abba - we put David (and the rest of the folks) into your hands - Be glorified in and through them.
God is so good.
Yesterday he called his Colorado Grandpa and Grandma to tell them thank you for the support check they sent - after he got off the phone he was literally dancing around the house. It makes us joyful to see our child excited to jump out of his comfort zone. (Note: this is making Dad and Mom jump out of their comfort zone also!).
As we have been praying over the last few weeks it has been good to see David grow in his relationship with the Lord. Part of me is not sure Haiti is ready for him!!! We pray also for the children he will interact with, that they will capture the joy of the Lord.
Abba - we put David (and the rest of the folks) into your hands - Be glorified in and through them.
God is so good.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Friendships
It is interesting how we end up friends with folks. How God brings us together to walk through life - sometimes for long times, other for short times.
I think friendships help us understand God better. We are able to hurt when our friends are hurting, we can rejoice in their victories. Walking through life with friends sometimes forces us to take our eyes off of ourselves and put them on others.
One of our friends is hurting so deeply - and the only thing we can do is pray. I just love it that God understands my anger at the person who is being STUPID and hurt my friend. So many miss out because they (erroneously) believe God can't take their anger. I have yelled at God many times and He took it just fine. In fact, as I am yelling, He takes me in His arms, He holds me close and says, I love you.
God is so good.
I think friendships help us understand God better. We are able to hurt when our friends are hurting, we can rejoice in their victories. Walking through life with friends sometimes forces us to take our eyes off of ourselves and put them on others.
One of our friends is hurting so deeply - and the only thing we can do is pray. I just love it that God understands my anger at the person who is being STUPID and hurt my friend. So many miss out because they (erroneously) believe God can't take their anger. I have yelled at God many times and He took it just fine. In fact, as I am yelling, He takes me in His arms, He holds me close and says, I love you.
God is so good.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Faith and Risk Taking
Life is good. I (Vicki) have been reading Francis Chan's book Forgotten God. Talks much about how we don't really trust the Holy Spirit to work in our lives. Challenges folks to step out and take steps of faith.
Then last evening at church Pastor Greg spoke of similar stuff - how Caleb had a "different" Spirit. One that remembered God's promises; walked by faith; did not become bitter, but did become better; relied on God's promises to overcome fear.
Interesting these both occurred at the same time in our lives. We have been blocked from serving where we wanted to. People have told us we aren't ready, But the Holy Spirit kept nudging us - encouraged us to keep on through the Word, through godly people in our lives, through prayer. We were hurt and confused.
Our God is amazing. Separately Brian and I both came to the same conclusion - we will step out in faith and work with folks who are not "church" people. There are several opportunities - we are praying which step to take - but we will take the steps because we have walked the land - and now we are going to possess it - we will share the pain, the sorrow, the joy we have experienced because God loves us sooooooo much.
We are excited. We have no clue how this is going to work, but we know it will.
God is good.
Then last evening at church Pastor Greg spoke of similar stuff - how Caleb had a "different" Spirit. One that remembered God's promises; walked by faith; did not become bitter, but did become better; relied on God's promises to overcome fear.
Interesting these both occurred at the same time in our lives. We have been blocked from serving where we wanted to. People have told us we aren't ready, But the Holy Spirit kept nudging us - encouraged us to keep on through the Word, through godly people in our lives, through prayer. We were hurt and confused.
Our God is amazing. Separately Brian and I both came to the same conclusion - we will step out in faith and work with folks who are not "church" people. There are several opportunities - we are praying which step to take - but we will take the steps because we have walked the land - and now we are going to possess it - we will share the pain, the sorrow, the joy we have experienced because God loves us sooooooo much.
We are excited. We have no clue how this is going to work, but we know it will.
God is good.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Colorado Pictures
God did some amazing work here.
We arrived in Silverton after the train left. This meant the town was basically shut down. Brian had an ice cream cone and we walked around a bit. We decided to eat dinner in Durango. The drive from Silverton to Durango is beautiful. We were not too far from Durango when we saw the train - Brian was like a little boy. He waved at the conductor and then the whistle blew.... Made his day!!
God is so good.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Hunting
While the guys didn't bag any turkeys - we had a good time. We are blessed with wonderful children. And with each other.
Again - we were able to experience the beauty of God's creation.
Abba Father is so good to us.
Colorado
What an amazing trip to Colorado. We drove up on a Thursday. Brian was taking part in a Tres Dias Men's weekend - Vicki did nothing.... Until the following week.
Monday Dad Rex took us sight seeing - how amazing is the hand of our Lord. This is at the Black Canyon of Gunnison River. Wow. To think God did this in six days - we talked a lot about how Heaven will be - He has been working on Heaven for over 2,000 years now.
This trip was so peaceful - one of the reasons we love going to Cedaredge. Surrounded by love, friendship, good food, beautiful landscape, chickens. God is good.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Memories
It was eight years ago today my Dad died. In some ways it seems so long ago and in other ways the pain is fresh. I miss him a lot.
He was an aeronautical engineer plus he had more common sense than four people put together! Though he was a quiet man, stoic, he loved deeply and listened well.
It hurts that he did not get to see our children graduate or marry. He will not hold his great-grandchildren.
Yet, in so many ways, he is with me all the time. I feel his presence when I am lonely. I hear his words of wisdom when I am questioning. I feel his arms around me when I am scared.
My earthly father had so many characteristics of my Heavenly Father. Perhaps that is why my faith is so simple. I am blessed.
God is good.
He was an aeronautical engineer plus he had more common sense than four people put together! Though he was a quiet man, stoic, he loved deeply and listened well.
It hurts that he did not get to see our children graduate or marry. He will not hold his great-grandchildren.
Yet, in so many ways, he is with me all the time. I feel his presence when I am lonely. I hear his words of wisdom when I am questioning. I feel his arms around me when I am scared.
My earthly father had so many characteristics of my Heavenly Father. Perhaps that is why my faith is so simple. I am blessed.
God is good.
Monday, September 6, 2010
Home
We love the home we are in. It is just the right size, wonderful location, cozy. There are things we would love to do - but we can't. It is not ours. The folks we are renting from want to sell it, we want to buy it. But in today's economy, we don't qualify.
It is fo frustrating. We are living within our means. We are on a three year plan to be totally out of debt. We save 10%, tithe 10% and live on 80%. Yet, according to the standards, we aren't good enough.
We have settle in so easily - it is home. Part of me is sad, maybe we will only be here a short while. They will be at law school for two to three years so even though our lease is for a year, more than likely we will be here longer. The challenge we pray about regularly - is the price they will want for our home reasonable and within our means.
Can't wait to see how God answers this one.
God is so good.
It is fo frustrating. We are living within our means. We are on a three year plan to be totally out of debt. We save 10%, tithe 10% and live on 80%. Yet, according to the standards, we aren't good enough.
We have settle in so easily - it is home. Part of me is sad, maybe we will only be here a short while. They will be at law school for two to three years so even though our lease is for a year, more than likely we will be here longer. The challenge we pray about regularly - is the price they will want for our home reasonable and within our means.
Can't wait to see how God answers this one.
God is so good.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Hurting Child
We absolutely adore our children - God has blessed us with amazing children - all very unique, strong-willed, creative and full of faith (though they may not realize it yet!).
The past few days have been difficult as we are watching David struggle. His decision to go into the Army may not happen. He has some health issues, while not life and death, will probably keep him home.
So, we watch him - what does he do? He is hurting, doesn't think what he does is important. The devil is putting so many lies from the pit of hell into his mind it is making us mad!!!
It is David who stood by me when Brian walked out - he was an incredible source of strength. It is David who confronted his Dad about the sin in his life, then stood by us as we have reconciled. It is David who cried at Kara's wedding. He is a man after God's own heart.
God has great and mighty things planned for him. Just as Jacob wrestled God and then was used to build a nation - David is wrestling God. He may not build a nation - but we have absolutely no doubt he will make an impact on those God puts in his life.
So we sit back, love our child and pray. God will bring him through and God will be glorified in David's life.
God is good.
The past few days have been difficult as we are watching David struggle. His decision to go into the Army may not happen. He has some health issues, while not life and death, will probably keep him home.
So, we watch him - what does he do? He is hurting, doesn't think what he does is important. The devil is putting so many lies from the pit of hell into his mind it is making us mad!!!
It is David who stood by me when Brian walked out - he was an incredible source of strength. It is David who confronted his Dad about the sin in his life, then stood by us as we have reconciled. It is David who cried at Kara's wedding. He is a man after God's own heart.
God has great and mighty things planned for him. Just as Jacob wrestled God and then was used to build a nation - David is wrestling God. He may not build a nation - but we have absolutely no doubt he will make an impact on those God puts in his life.
So we sit back, love our child and pray. God will bring him through and God will be glorified in David's life.
God is good.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Temptation
Visited CCV last weekend. Always good to see what is going on in other churches. The worship was amazing, the sermon was excellent (Don Wilson was my Youth Pastor oh so many years ago....). There was a part of the sermon, an aside actually, that really caught us.....
Falling to temptation has five steps (see James 1:13-15):
Having lived through this and seen how God is glorified when we stand firm - it is always good to remember - God's standards are absolute, they do NOT change.
He will ALWAYS provide an escape from temptation and thus victory. Guess we should focus on the eternal, rather than the immediate.
God has blessed us so very much. God is so good.
Falling to temptation has five steps (see James 1:13-15):
- Desire
- Deception
- Decision
- Destruction
- Death
Having lived through this and seen how God is glorified when we stand firm - it is always good to remember - God's standards are absolute, they do NOT change.
He will ALWAYS provide an escape from temptation and thus victory. Guess we should focus on the eternal, rather than the immediate.
God has blessed us so very much. God is so good.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Camping on the Rim
To say it was peaceful would be an understatement. The only challenge we faced - the bugs. They seem to like Brian much better than Vicki - so it is all good!!
It was so cool - we bought mountain bikes. Totally sure it would have made a great video watching us ride the first time. It is much more difficult to ride up hill than down hill. Though downhill is a tad bit scarier - especially with all those rocks in the road!! Having those new knees is beyond words. We are so thankful for both technology and a great doctor.
We drove the Rim Road - saw a mama deer and her baby, watched the progress of the forest since the Dude Fire nine years ago, enjoyed the changing colors of the land and the sky.
One of Brian's favorite parts of camping - pizza!! Somehow pizza tastes so much better when it is cooked out in the open. In fact, all food tastes better when eaten around a fire.
Our last night out our fire started nicely - the wonderful smell.... well then the rain decided to put the fire out - it literally rained all night long. No S'Mores for Brian!! We sat in the trailer and played Zilch and War. By morning the sun was out (as were the bugs!). We packed up and headed home.
God is so creative - the colors, the sounds, the smells. We can't wait to see wait Heaven will be like. You see, He took six days to create the earth - He has been working on Heaven for over 2,000 years.
God is good.
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Marriage Ministry
We will be working with the Marriage Ministry at Palm Valley. God doesn't take you through an experience like ours to let it sit on the shelf. So we will take the pain we experienced, the healing we have been blessed with and walk with other couples who are struggling.
It is amusing because we felt led in this direction about six months ago and volunteered. But, the training wouldn't happen until about now. So we waited. We think God wanted us to get past the first year being reconciliation. God has blessed our socks off in the past year.
During the last three months God has brought two families to us who are hurting because of affairs. One of them has ended in divorce (which God hates) but the beautiful lady is learning Jesus is all she needs. The other couple is working on the marriage - we are hoping they will let us walk with them.
We expect this will bring up some pain - but it is an honor because Jesus hurts.
God is so good!
It is amusing because we felt led in this direction about six months ago and volunteered. But, the training wouldn't happen until about now. So we waited. We think God wanted us to get past the first year being reconciliation. God has blessed our socks off in the past year.
During the last three months God has brought two families to us who are hurting because of affairs. One of them has ended in divorce (which God hates) but the beautiful lady is learning Jesus is all she needs. The other couple is working on the marriage - we are hoping they will let us walk with them.
We expect this will bring up some pain - but it is an honor because Jesus hurts.
God is so good!
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Home
We are about 95% settle in!! It has been an amazing story. Brian and David got the truck on Thurday morning (July 29) and had the truck loaded by mid-afternoon. We drove by the new place and they were still here. Next morning I drove by about 5:30am and they were gone - I texted Brian and David - they were here before 8:00 unloading.
I got off work about 1:00 and headed to the old place to "help". We threw everything else in and then unloaded - we were able to return the truck a day early and call our friends and say - "Your Saturday is free!"
Saturday it rained all day long - not just rain, but pouring rain. Brian's dad came over and painted a wall for us and we spent the day unpacking.
Throughout the week we have unpacked more and more. This morning I tackled the spare room - everything out - then everything back in. We have a few more things to finish up and hang pictures in the family room.
David came home from church and said - "This feels like home."
Thank you Lord for a new home. God is so good.
I got off work about 1:00 and headed to the old place to "help". We threw everything else in and then unloaded - we were able to return the truck a day early and call our friends and say - "Your Saturday is free!"
Saturday it rained all day long - not just rain, but pouring rain. Brian's dad came over and painted a wall for us and we spent the day unpacking.
Throughout the week we have unpacked more and more. This morning I tackled the spare room - everything out - then everything back in. We have a few more things to finish up and hang pictures in the family room.
David came home from church and said - "This feels like home."
Thank you Lord for a new home. God is so good.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
A New Chapter
Tomorrow we close the door on this chapter of our life - it was one neither of us want to repeat!!
Yet, in so many ways we have grown - closer to each other, closer to Abba Father. Our faith has been stretched beyond what we thought was bearable. We have learned to laugh at both situations and ourselves. God has allowed us to experience deep pain - just as Jesus did on the cross.
Our prayer is God will use our experience to encourage others - to let them know you can make it through as long as you keep your eyes on the throne.
We are so excited to see where God is leading us, the adventures we will have serving Him. We are so blessed. God is good.
Yet, in so many ways we have grown - closer to each other, closer to Abba Father. Our faith has been stretched beyond what we thought was bearable. We have learned to laugh at both situations and ourselves. God has allowed us to experience deep pain - just as Jesus did on the cross.
Our prayer is God will use our experience to encourage others - to let them know you can make it through as long as you keep your eyes on the throne.
We are so excited to see where God is leading us, the adventures we will have serving Him. We are so blessed. God is good.
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Countdown
The countdown is on - we are six days away from being in our new home. In some ways there is SOOO much to do - and in others, we are under control.
Brian and David don't know it yet, but we are eating on paper plates for the next few days - it will get rid of the enormous number of paper plates we have and it allowed me to pack the dishes!! All the silverware and cooking untilsils are in boxes on the counter. Only the food remains to be packed. Monday night I am going through the fridge and freezer to toss out expired or funny looking things. And, we are eating some stuff I wonder why we bought.....
I am so blessed to have a husband who is so handy - he has fixed a couple of things that broke around here, he has the move all organized so I will have minimal moving to do, in fact, I will be working Thursday and Friday while Brian, David and JT are loading the truck.
David has been such a helper - it was cool to spend the day with him yesterday, looking for a bed for him and a chair for Brian - we found both. God is doing great things in him.
We are blessed to have friends who will help, family who laugh with us and a Savior to walk through life with. God is good.
Brian and David don't know it yet, but we are eating on paper plates for the next few days - it will get rid of the enormous number of paper plates we have and it allowed me to pack the dishes!! All the silverware and cooking untilsils are in boxes on the counter. Only the food remains to be packed. Monday night I am going through the fridge and freezer to toss out expired or funny looking things. And, we are eating some stuff I wonder why we bought.....
I am so blessed to have a husband who is so handy - he has fixed a couple of things that broke around here, he has the move all organized so I will have minimal moving to do, in fact, I will be working Thursday and Friday while Brian, David and JT are loading the truck.
David has been such a helper - it was cool to spend the day with him yesterday, looking for a bed for him and a chair for Brian - we found both. God is doing great things in him.
We are blessed to have friends who will help, family who laugh with us and a Savior to walk through life with. God is good.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Random Thoughts
Kind of crazy to think in two weeks we will be in our new home. Seems like there is so much to do, but there isn't really. The garage sale was a huge success. Everything except four boxes of stuff sold - the boxes got dropped at Goodwill on the way to church. It feels good to be downsizing.
What is left to be packed is stuff that we use regularly enough that I will wait until next week. Besides, I am a little leary of the tape gun since it attacked my foot. Quite honestly - I didn't know blood could spurt like that. All is healing nicely.
It has been cool to see some of the miracles in our life over the past few days. Tank got really sick - became incontinent, throwing up blood, couldn't bark. We truly believed we were going to have to put him down. Shared with our Small Group on Friday our challenges - on Saturday, he was back to being Tank.... Think there were some amazing prayers being said.
Then this morning I was out shoveling granite in the front yard (yes, I could have left it for the landlord to do.....), David was changing his tires when the car fell off the jack. It was scary. He was trying so hard to get another jack underneath (and Mom wasn't being much help!) when a guy from down the street came down to ask what days garbage was collected - he ended up helping David get the entire thing done. Pretty sure we entertained an angel.
God is so good to us. He continues to bless our marriage and our family. Can't wait to see what happens when we are in our new home. The blessings are going to be flooding in. God is good.
What is left to be packed is stuff that we use regularly enough that I will wait until next week. Besides, I am a little leary of the tape gun since it attacked my foot. Quite honestly - I didn't know blood could spurt like that. All is healing nicely.
It has been cool to see some of the miracles in our life over the past few days. Tank got really sick - became incontinent, throwing up blood, couldn't bark. We truly believed we were going to have to put him down. Shared with our Small Group on Friday our challenges - on Saturday, he was back to being Tank.... Think there were some amazing prayers being said.
Then this morning I was out shoveling granite in the front yard (yes, I could have left it for the landlord to do.....), David was changing his tires when the car fell off the jack. It was scary. He was trying so hard to get another jack underneath (and Mom wasn't being much help!) when a guy from down the street came down to ask what days garbage was collected - he ended up helping David get the entire thing done. Pretty sure we entertained an angel.
God is so good to us. He continues to bless our marriage and our family. Can't wait to see what happens when we are in our new home. The blessings are going to be flooding in. God is good.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Hurt/Hope
Okay this is David on the blog.
Yes i know i titled it hurt for a reason. Through my 18 years of life i have learned a lot from stupid things and i have also done my share, yet through it all i look at it as a learning experience. Couple months ago my sister Kara and I were talking about how painful it is to have to watch our siblings and family go through everything we have. Of all my siblings i must say that Kara and I are the closest because she hasn't hurt me, well at least not intentionally. If you have been following my moms blog over the last year you know that we have had quite the journey! I will never forget the day I came back from Young Life camp (the best week of my life) and was told to sit down and had to hear what my father had decided to do. But the bottom line is even though that hurt, i forgave him. Haven't fully forgotten though. But i do believe we are rebuilding the bond, that of which a father and son share. Which brings me to my next point, some relationships just reallly hurt whether its family or friends, physical or emotional. Few days ago my brother Jay had called me, and my response to him was "Jay there are a lot of people that are willing to help you get your life back together but the bottom line is the change starts with you, you gotta make that change in your heart, rid yourself of the moral filth of the world". He was like i know it just sucks that the one i hurt most physically is giving me this advice, and i told him "Jay I'm over the fact you hurt me physically, the pain you have caused me now is in my heart because i know your better than that, you can do it i am wlling to help you like everyone else but like i said you need to have a change of heart first and next is apologizes, with sincerity." Bottom line is that sometimes we get hurt by the ones who are closest to us, but how do we react? are we angry? bitter? hopeful? the answer is all of them, but yet when we hurt Jesus how does He feel? Keep in mind the hurt Jesus went through for you and i just to be here, He did it ot of love and because He has hope for a future with Him. To any and all that i have hurt in the last year, i am sorry. I love you all, thanks for taking the time to listen to my heart!
David Wuerfel
Yes i know i titled it hurt for a reason. Through my 18 years of life i have learned a lot from stupid things and i have also done my share, yet through it all i look at it as a learning experience. Couple months ago my sister Kara and I were talking about how painful it is to have to watch our siblings and family go through everything we have. Of all my siblings i must say that Kara and I are the closest because she hasn't hurt me, well at least not intentionally. If you have been following my moms blog over the last year you know that we have had quite the journey! I will never forget the day I came back from Young Life camp (the best week of my life) and was told to sit down and had to hear what my father had decided to do. But the bottom line is even though that hurt, i forgave him. Haven't fully forgotten though. But i do believe we are rebuilding the bond, that of which a father and son share. Which brings me to my next point, some relationships just reallly hurt whether its family or friends, physical or emotional. Few days ago my brother Jay had called me, and my response to him was "Jay there are a lot of people that are willing to help you get your life back together but the bottom line is the change starts with you, you gotta make that change in your heart, rid yourself of the moral filth of the world". He was like i know it just sucks that the one i hurt most physically is giving me this advice, and i told him "Jay I'm over the fact you hurt me physically, the pain you have caused me now is in my heart because i know your better than that, you can do it i am wlling to help you like everyone else but like i said you need to have a change of heart first and next is apologizes, with sincerity." Bottom line is that sometimes we get hurt by the ones who are closest to us, but how do we react? are we angry? bitter? hopeful? the answer is all of them, but yet when we hurt Jesus how does He feel? Keep in mind the hurt Jesus went through for you and i just to be here, He did it ot of love and because He has hope for a future with Him. To any and all that i have hurt in the last year, i am sorry. I love you all, thanks for taking the time to listen to my heart!
David Wuerfel
Blessed
Sometimes I am amazed at how blessed we are.
God has walked with us through some pretty major storms - and we have come out stronger and closer to Him.
Materially I look around and see how much "stuff" we have.
Our children, at least two of them, are making good life decisions. The others, we claim God's promise that we have trained them in His ways - and they will return to Him.
Most of all - we have each other. So it doesn't really matter what goes on around us. Since we are walking with our Lord - we are the majority.
God is doing great and mighty things. God is so good.
God has walked with us through some pretty major storms - and we have come out stronger and closer to Him.
Materially I look around and see how much "stuff" we have.
Our children, at least two of them, are making good life decisions. The others, we claim God's promise that we have trained them in His ways - and they will return to Him.
Most of all - we have each other. So it doesn't really matter what goes on around us. Since we are walking with our Lord - we are the majority.
God is doing great and mighty things. God is so good.
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Chaos
It is official - we are living in chaos. Just when I think I know where the boxes are - they move. The good thing - many of them are now full. They are stacked across the living room walls.
The unsettledness of moving is not comfortable. But, I don't think we are supposed to be too comfortable in this world. Praying this will be our last move for a LONG time. If it isn't - part of God's plan.
The other thought I keep having - why do we have all this stuff? Therefore, not only are we downsizing - we are clearing out. Though we said we would never have another garage sale, we are.
Before too long we will be in our new home - can't wait.
God is good.
The unsettledness of moving is not comfortable. But, I don't think we are supposed to be too comfortable in this world. Praying this will be our last move for a LONG time. If it isn't - part of God's plan.
The other thought I keep having - why do we have all this stuff? Therefore, not only are we downsizing - we are clearing out. Though we said we would never have another garage sale, we are.
Before too long we will be in our new home - can't wait.
God is good.
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Army Mom and Dad
He won't go to basic training at Fort Knox until November. He will be there for eight weeks, then an additional nine for specialized training.
Going through this decision making we have seen maturity - he is thinking out what he wants to do. He decided since he doesn't like school much and isn't sure what he wants to do - why waste money on college. Go into the Army - learn some stuff, then he can go to college on the Army.
Such mixed emotions - we are so proud of him, we are concerned for his safety, we have such a deep love for our son.
God is good.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Roller Coasters
While I do enjoy riding roller coasters - I do NOT like roller coaster emotions.
Brian and I were totally blessed to go camping for a few days. We were up near Lake Mary in Flagstaff (in a camp ground - yuk) where the skies were star-filled, the temperatures were cooler, we saw an elk!! And somehow food cooked on a grill is so much better - grilled pizza around a camp fire... Brian even caught fish!!
We came home to a party - not the kind of party that is acceptable or legal. Our agreement with Jay as we left - if he made any bad decisions, he would be out. Well, he is out.
Our hearts are heavy as we hurt so much for our child who is making BAD decisions, who is unwilling to admit he has an alcohol problem, We hurt for his friends (yes church friends) who didn't step in to stop, we don't know if they took part. And we have holes in walls and cabinets that must be fixed prior to our move.
Guess we are back at the Scripture God showed me a year ago January - Stand Firm. We are standing firm in the Lord, letting Him deal with Jay. We are demonstrating tough love (which, by the way, is tougher on the parents than the child). We are holding on to Abba Father and to each other.
We know God will receive the glory through this and it will draw us closer together.
God is good.
Brian and I were totally blessed to go camping for a few days. We were up near Lake Mary in Flagstaff (in a camp ground - yuk) where the skies were star-filled, the temperatures were cooler, we saw an elk!! And somehow food cooked on a grill is so much better - grilled pizza around a camp fire... Brian even caught fish!!
We came home to a party - not the kind of party that is acceptable or legal. Our agreement with Jay as we left - if he made any bad decisions, he would be out. Well, he is out.
Our hearts are heavy as we hurt so much for our child who is making BAD decisions, who is unwilling to admit he has an alcohol problem, We hurt for his friends (yes church friends) who didn't step in to stop, we don't know if they took part. And we have holes in walls and cabinets that must be fixed prior to our move.
Guess we are back at the Scripture God showed me a year ago January - Stand Firm. We are standing firm in the Lord, letting Him deal with Jay. We are demonstrating tough love (which, by the way, is tougher on the parents than the child). We are holding on to Abba Father and to each other.
We know God will receive the glory through this and it will draw us closer together.
God is good.
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Crazy Love
It is so crazy how much God loves us. We are seeing so many things that point to the fact that the Creator of the Universe cares about every aspect of our lives.
The details for the move are coming together. David's car came together. We are watching Him work in the lives of our friends.
Brian is growing so quickly. It is amazing to watch the prayers of the last year come to fruition in ways that are so beyond what my pea brain could even imagine. God is doing great things in and through Brian's life. His heart is so at one with God's.
Can't wait to get moved to the new home - where the memories of this house are behind us.
God is so good.
The details for the move are coming together. David's car came together. We are watching Him work in the lives of our friends.
Brian is growing so quickly. It is amazing to watch the prayers of the last year come to fruition in ways that are so beyond what my pea brain could even imagine. God is doing great things in and through Brian's life. His heart is so at one with God's.
Can't wait to get moved to the new home - where the memories of this house are behind us.
God is so good.
Sunday, June 13, 2010
New Home
Last weekend we went out looking for homes to rent. Looked at six homes, found one we really liked. So we filled out the application (at least the page we received). Susie, our realtor, sent it to the other agent. Oops, we fill out the second page. Then he wanted our credit report (free but annoying), then he wanted a letter as to why we wanted the house. We are at Wednesday.
Wednesday was a poopy at work - too much going on. So when our friend Kathleen called, I let it go to voice mail. A while later I listened to her message..... they have a friend who is headed to Stanford Law School and they have a house to rent...... I forwarded the message to Brian, who called Kathleen. Then he called Lauren. We decided to do a drive by - check out the house and neighborhood.
While driving over there, Susie called. Now the first place wants our credit score so he can make a decision Thursday. One has to pay to get their credit score. And, ours are horrible. So I told Susie what was going on. She said she would pray.
We drove by the house - liked what we saw. Now the question - do we agree to a house sight unseen?, do we call them?, what about the application that is in?????? So we called Kathleen, who called Lauren.
Lauren was out with some friends, but Kyle is home, taking a nap. Our instructions were ring the door bell, the dogs will bark, a minute later ring the door bell again, the barking dogs will wake Kyle up. Didn't work. So Brian and Lauren are on the phone with us planning to go get Lauren. The front door opens with a sleepy Kyle.
He was so gracious, kept apologizing for the mess. He showed us the house, answered lots of questions. We have a home, the details still need to be worked through. We withdrew our application for the first home all the while thanking God for His grace, mercy and timing.
God is so amazing - three bedrooms, den, great room, three car garage with built in workbench and cabinets, nice kitchen, RV gate, swimming pool, no problem with our dogs, on the golf course, 14 miles closer to work for Vicki!! Brian is going to jump into a van pool.
Kathleen and Daniel will be our first dinner guests. We are so thankful for wonderful friends, an amazing Lord and His timing.
God is good.
Wednesday was a poopy at work - too much going on. So when our friend Kathleen called, I let it go to voice mail. A while later I listened to her message..... they have a friend who is headed to Stanford Law School and they have a house to rent...... I forwarded the message to Brian, who called Kathleen. Then he called Lauren. We decided to do a drive by - check out the house and neighborhood.
While driving over there, Susie called. Now the first place wants our credit score so he can make a decision Thursday. One has to pay to get their credit score. And, ours are horrible. So I told Susie what was going on. She said she would pray.
We drove by the house - liked what we saw. Now the question - do we agree to a house sight unseen?, do we call them?, what about the application that is in?????? So we called Kathleen, who called Lauren.
Lauren was out with some friends, but Kyle is home, taking a nap. Our instructions were ring the door bell, the dogs will bark, a minute later ring the door bell again, the barking dogs will wake Kyle up. Didn't work. So Brian and Lauren are on the phone with us planning to go get Lauren. The front door opens with a sleepy Kyle.
He was so gracious, kept apologizing for the mess. He showed us the house, answered lots of questions. We have a home, the details still need to be worked through. We withdrew our application for the first home all the while thanking God for His grace, mercy and timing.
God is so amazing - three bedrooms, den, great room, three car garage with built in workbench and cabinets, nice kitchen, RV gate, swimming pool, no problem with our dogs, on the golf course, 14 miles closer to work for Vicki!! Brian is going to jump into a van pool.
Kathleen and Daniel will be our first dinner guests. We are so thankful for wonderful friends, an amazing Lord and His timing.
God is good.
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Packing
Packing is bittersweet. It is a lot of hard work - I (Vicki) am actually sweating. But, the photo albums and lighthouses are all boxed up. While I wanted to look through every album I didn't, just a peek here and a peek there. One of my goals is to get a scanner and get all 49 albums of pictures on a disc.
It has also been a chance to do some weeding out. Why was I keeping the photos from college photography 25 years ago? If I liked them wouldn't I have hung them up? Brian is amazing at sending me flowers - therefore we have 23 vases. Which is insane because whenever we give flowers - we regift the vase and put in fresh flowers!
The other crazy thing - we don't know for sure when or where we are moving!! Just trusting God. We have an application in on a great house. But, in this market, who knows. And, if it isn't this house - it will be a better one.
God is good.
It has also been a chance to do some weeding out. Why was I keeping the photos from college photography 25 years ago? If I liked them wouldn't I have hung them up? Brian is amazing at sending me flowers - therefore we have 23 vases. Which is insane because whenever we give flowers - we regift the vase and put in fresh flowers!
The other crazy thing - we don't know for sure when or where we are moving!! Just trusting God. We have an application in on a great house. But, in this market, who knows. And, if it isn't this house - it will be a better one.
God is good.
Choices
God is so good. We are having the privilege of watching Him work in the life of another couple. (No, this isn't thank You Lord it isn't us!) God is doing great and mighty things and whatever the outcome, He will get the glory.
At times it is hard - we want it to be fixed, we want them back together - to be honoring the covenant of marriage God has established. Yet, we walked this road. Brian chose to leave. I (Vicki) chose to stay with my faith and trust God is big enough and Brian was smart enough to reconcile.
We live in an evil world. God has allowed the evil one to rule here. He has given us free choice. What an amazing God to love us so much to let us choose even after Jesus died for sins and defeated death by rising from the grave.
The best we can do is to continue on our knees for this dear family. We will be there whenever she needs us and when he is ready - we will be there with open arms, right behind Jesus!!
God is so good.
At times it is hard - we want it to be fixed, we want them back together - to be honoring the covenant of marriage God has established. Yet, we walked this road. Brian chose to leave. I (Vicki) chose to stay with my faith and trust God is big enough and Brian was smart enough to reconcile.
We live in an evil world. God has allowed the evil one to rule here. He has given us free choice. What an amazing God to love us so much to let us choose even after Jesus died for sins and defeated death by rising from the grave.
The best we can do is to continue on our knees for this dear family. We will be there whenever she needs us and when he is ready - we will be there with open arms, right behind Jesus!!
God is so good.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Blessed
While several of the things that happened were meant to discourage - we are pumped. There is a spiritual battle going on, not only in our lives, but in the lives of those we love. And we know the end - God wins!!
A year ago I (Vicki) was walking alone, today, we are walking together. Sometimes I look at Brian and am awed at the magnificent work God has done in and through him. He is so passionately in love with Jesus and me. We can do all things through Christ who gives us strength.
God is very good.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Disneyland!!
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David, Chelsea, Brian and Vicki drove over on Thursday. After checking in our hotel we went to the beach - it was a blast. We ate dinner at the RainForest Cafe in Downtown Disney.
Friday we spent the morning at California Adventure. In the afternoon we split up. Brian and Vicki went over to Disneyland and rode all the big rides. Then back to California Adventure. Brian loves Tower of Terror. We called it a night about 9:00pm.
Saturday morning Kara and Tom joined us. We thought the kids would ditch us after lunch at the Blue Bayou but they didn't. It was so much fun to hang out with our children. They are fun, responsible, respectful adults. We are proud of them. About 8:30 we again headed back to our hotel - the young people stayed out much later.
It is a good season of our life - getting to know our children as friends. God is so good!
Facebook Free
We made the decision to leave Facebook. It has been so freeing.
Two reasons - First of all, we were spending way too much time on stuff that doesn't matter. We got to thinking - if we have this time, why aren't why spending it in the Word, serving, being together or something else....
Second, someone was coming after us - we were getting so much garbage. It isn't worth it. Now information about us isn't available for the entire world to see.
So we stay in the dark ages. Those who know us have our email. Those who really know us have our phone numbers. We are at peace.
God is good.
Two reasons - First of all, we were spending way too much time on stuff that doesn't matter. We got to thinking - if we have this time, why aren't why spending it in the Word, serving, being together or something else....
Second, someone was coming after us - we were getting so much garbage. It isn't worth it. Now information about us isn't available for the entire world to see.
So we stay in the dark ages. Those who know us have our email. Those who really know us have our phone numbers. We are at peace.
God is good.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Change
This will be a memorable week. David graduates from high school. Never mind our baby is 6'3" and 160 pounds, holds down a job and wants to go into the Navy. He will always be my baby.
And, Jay is scheduled to move out on Wednesday into an apartment with some other folks.
Pastor Greg said in church yesterday we are to embrace change - so we are embracing. Even to the point we decided to look for a smaller home.... still not sure where or when, but God is definitely leading us smaller.
As much as we love our children - this is such an exciting time in our lives. Being able to come and go as we want, travel, waiting for grandchildren.....
God is so good.
And, Jay is scheduled to move out on Wednesday into an apartment with some other folks.
Pastor Greg said in church yesterday we are to embrace change - so we are embracing. Even to the point we decided to look for a smaller home.... still not sure where or when, but God is definitely leading us smaller.
As much as we love our children - this is such an exciting time in our lives. Being able to come and go as we want, travel, waiting for grandchildren.....
God is so good.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Jeep Bonding
Tonight was incredible - I arrived home to find David and Brian working on the Jeep. They replaced the radiator and were in the process of replacing the gas tank.
After a run to Checker for more parts (had to swing into Filiberto's for a fast dinner) Jay joined them in working. All three of them were getting along, being nice to each other - in fact, they were even discussing the best way to get the gas tank back in place.....
Most of the evening I sat, watching and listening, praising God for these three amazing men. After a while I went in and made them Rice Krispy Squares - they were so excited.
As we approach being empty nesters - these are the times I am going to miss. The unplanned, precious moments sharing life.
God is good.
After a run to Checker for more parts (had to swing into Filiberto's for a fast dinner) Jay joined them in working. All three of them were getting along, being nice to each other - in fact, they were even discussing the best way to get the gas tank back in place.....
Most of the evening I sat, watching and listening, praising God for these three amazing men. After a while I went in and made them Rice Krispy Squares - they were so excited.
As we approach being empty nesters - these are the times I am going to miss. The unplanned, precious moments sharing life.
God is good.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Mother's Day
This year is much better than last year. So much has happened - God has done (and continues to move in) great and mighty ways.
Received the sweetest card from Brian - full of love and encouragement and a dark chocolate candy bar. The man is good.
Our children are a blessing even though not all of them are making wise decisions at the moment. I have learned their decisions are not a reflection on my mothering. This was a huge lesson and has given me so much peace.
I am excited to see what the next year brings. God is so good.
Received the sweetest card from Brian - full of love and encouragement and a dark chocolate candy bar. The man is good.
Our children are a blessing even though not all of them are making wise decisions at the moment. I have learned their decisions are not a reflection on my mothering. This was a huge lesson and has given me so much peace.
I am excited to see what the next year brings. God is so good.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Cruising to Mexico
At Catalina Island we rented a golf cart and drove around the island. It is beautiful.
While in Ensenada we went on an Extreme Dune Buggy outing. This is the before picture - we came back soaking wet, full of mud and laughing. It was so much fun!! BTW - Brian was like a kid in a candy store,
After cleaning up aboard ship we went to LaBufadora for some shopping - this is the best place to haggle and find bargains and the absolute best churros on the earth (cheapest too!). Brian would argue for the fish tacos...
The day at sea was relaxing, at least until the storm hit and the boat was rocking.... we both are still experiencing sea legs.
When we finally got off the ship we checked out hotels around Disneyland for our upcoming trip there. Hopped over to Santa Monica to eat at Bubba Gumps. Rather than driving home we stayed in Ontario and drove home Saturday.
The trip was good, a continuation of healing, making new memories, seeing new places (God is so amazing in all the different ways He creates beauty), making new friends and just growing more in love with God and with each other.
God is so good!
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Children
It is so fascinating to see how different our children are.
We have gifted and special needs; we have athletes and klutzes; we have social butterflies and those who prefer to be alone; we have servants and selfish.
Yet we love all of our children equally. Or perhaps Erma Bombeck said it best - "I love the child who needs me most at the time." Used to be that didn't sit well with me. Now I think I understand - when our children have a need, as parents we want to fill it. And, thank you Lord, seldom have more than one of our children been going through a crisis at the same time. Therefore, we have been able to meet their needs to the best of our ability.
Our children are a blessing. God is good to us.
We have gifted and special needs; we have athletes and klutzes; we have social butterflies and those who prefer to be alone; we have servants and selfish.
Yet we love all of our children equally. Or perhaps Erma Bombeck said it best - "I love the child who needs me most at the time." Used to be that didn't sit well with me. Now I think I understand - when our children have a need, as parents we want to fill it. And, thank you Lord, seldom have more than one of our children been going through a crisis at the same time. Therefore, we have been able to meet their needs to the best of our ability.
Our children are a blessing. God is good to us.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Crazy Busy Weekend
There are times I look forward to the work week. We spent ALL day Saturday looking for a Jeep Wrangler for David.
His current vehicle - Chevy Avalanche uses a lot of gas, so we offered to take it off his hands, sell Brian's Cadillac and find a Wrangler. First we tried to trade, no luck. So the Cadillac went on Craig's List to sell - and it did, quickly!
Not to look a gift horse in the mouth (we have been praying hard about this) but wow!
Because Wranglers hold their value, no one wants to get rid of theirs. We were in Mesa, Phoenix and Lake Havasu City!!
Then today David, Vicki and Jay went out. No luck yet. So for a while, we will be making do with two cars.
It will be so amazing to see the miracle God will perform in this one. God is so good.
The plus side - Brian and I had wonderful time together, driving, dreaming about our future. God is good.
His current vehicle - Chevy Avalanche uses a lot of gas, so we offered to take it off his hands, sell Brian's Cadillac and find a Wrangler. First we tried to trade, no luck. So the Cadillac went on Craig's List to sell - and it did, quickly!
Not to look a gift horse in the mouth (we have been praying hard about this) but wow!
Because Wranglers hold their value, no one wants to get rid of theirs. We were in Mesa, Phoenix and Lake Havasu City!!
Then today David, Vicki and Jay went out. No luck yet. So for a while, we will be making do with two cars.
It will be so amazing to see the miracle God will perform in this one. God is so good.
The plus side - Brian and I had wonderful time together, driving, dreaming about our future. God is good.
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Happy Birthday
Well, I guess I really blew it. Well not exactly...Vicki turns the big 50 today and I did not plan a surprise party or anything like that. Infact, we are going on a cruise in just a few weeks and will spoend quality time with eachother. Vicki says age is just a state of mind. I love Vicki and am enjoying our rebuilding time together.
Making chicken and grilled veggies for dinner then off to our small group class. Life is good and it is soo good to see how Vicki has been doing since her double knee replacement. God has truly blessed us over the past year and I am happy for anopther year with such a wonderful person who means so much to me and has sttod by me the past year.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PRINCESS!!!!!!!!
I love you.
Making chicken and grilled veggies for dinner then off to our small group class. Life is good and it is soo good to see how Vicki has been doing since her double knee replacement. God has truly blessed us over the past year and I am happy for anopther year with such a wonderful person who means so much to me and has sttod by me the past year.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PRINCESS!!!!!!!!
I love you.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Resurrection Day
He is risen!
This is the day we celebrate our Lord defeating death. Church last evening was amazing. Worship was off the hook, teaching brought tears to recall the pain Jesus went through for me, the fellowship - just a taste of Heaven.
With all the pain in the world, sometimes I wonder why more folks don't turn to Jesus. He has all the comfort and power. He held me so close during the dark times. He rejoices with us now as His will is being perfected. He is leading us on the path that is absolutely best for us.
While following Him does not mean life will be easy - there is the knowledge He has experienced everything we ever could AND we get to spend eternity with Him. Yep - God wins.
He is risen indeed.
This is the day we celebrate our Lord defeating death. Church last evening was amazing. Worship was off the hook, teaching brought tears to recall the pain Jesus went through for me, the fellowship - just a taste of Heaven.
With all the pain in the world, sometimes I wonder why more folks don't turn to Jesus. He has all the comfort and power. He held me so close during the dark times. He rejoices with us now as His will is being perfected. He is leading us on the path that is absolutely best for us.
While following Him does not mean life will be easy - there is the knowledge He has experienced everything we ever could AND we get to spend eternity with Him. Yep - God wins.
He is risen indeed.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Cleaning
It has been said of me (Vicki) I am a terrible housekeeper. It is true.
My priorities are other places - with the Lord and people. I would much rather just hang with my family or serve than clean.
But today, I cleaned - dusted, vacuumed, cleaned bathrooms, organized the desk. It feels (and smells) good.
Hopefully my family won't get too excited because I am sure it won't be an ongoing thing!
God is good.
My priorities are other places - with the Lord and people. I would much rather just hang with my family or serve than clean.
But today, I cleaned - dusted, vacuumed, cleaned bathrooms, organized the desk. It feels (and smells) good.
Hopefully my family won't get too excited because I am sure it won't be an ongoing thing!
God is good.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Do Nothing Day
We had a fun do-nothing day. I (Vicki) took the day off since I have oodles of vacation time and have an aversion to losing it after 360 hours..... It was great to sleep in, wander through Walmart then Bass Pro Shops (prefer Cableas), then have dinner with Kara and Tom.
Tomorrow is more of the same (except dinner with Kara and Tom). It is half price day at Goodwill and breakfast for $2.00 at the Goodyear Swap Meet.
There is nothing better than spending time with your best friend, lover and husband!!
God is good.
Tomorrow is more of the same (except dinner with Kara and Tom). It is half price day at Goodwill and breakfast for $2.00 at the Goodyear Swap Meet.
There is nothing better than spending time with your best friend, lover and husband!!
God is good.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Quiet
Brian has been in tactical training for a few days so my evenings have been quiet. It is crazy how much I miss having him around, even though on his work days he basically comes home, eats, we play a game or plan our trip, then he is in bed early.
In less than five weeks we will be cruising to Mexico. Then a few weeks after that we will head to California to celebrate David's high school graduation. Currently he is asking to go to Disneyland......
Funny how we spend so much time planning and looking forward to our travels. God has been planning Heaven for 2,000 years. It is going to be so much better than any trip we could imagine.
God is so good.
In less than five weeks we will be cruising to Mexico. Then a few weeks after that we will head to California to celebrate David's high school graduation. Currently he is asking to go to Disneyland......
Funny how we spend so much time planning and looking forward to our travels. God has been planning Heaven for 2,000 years. It is going to be so much better than any trip we could imagine.
God is so good.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Busy, Busy, Busy
Too much time since the last blog. This time of year brings auditors to work, flowers to the desert and busyness to our lives.
David is getting ready to graduate. So exciting. He went to Rocky Point with Chelsea and her family last week - within the first few hours was stung by a sting ray. He also gave Chelsea a promise ring..... So young. But, she is a beautiful girl and brings out good in David.
Jay passed his test and has his GED. Not sure what he is going to do, with almost 10% unemployment it is tough.
Kara and Tom like to spend time with us - at Cabela's!! Brian and Tom can spend hours looking at guns, camping stuff, guns, fishing stuff, guns.... Looks like we are going to turkey hunting in October. Hopefully I'll learn to cook a fresh turkey!!
Heather is finishing her courses up quickly. She too is looking for a job.
We are excited to see where God is going to move us - we know it will be in Goodyear - just don't know if we will be able to purchase (our heart's desire) or continue to rent for a while. We can't wait to be closer to church, our friends and for me - closer to work!!
Brian and I have been spending lots of time together just enjoying each other. After twenty years he is still my best friend. We can spend hours talking or not talking. In five weeks we are headed on another cruise - can't wait to be away from everything.
God is so good to us. He holds us close in His arms and loves on us. Who could ask for more. We are blessed!
David is getting ready to graduate. So exciting. He went to Rocky Point with Chelsea and her family last week - within the first few hours was stung by a sting ray. He also gave Chelsea a promise ring..... So young. But, she is a beautiful girl and brings out good in David.
Jay passed his test and has his GED. Not sure what he is going to do, with almost 10% unemployment it is tough.
Kara and Tom like to spend time with us - at Cabela's!! Brian and Tom can spend hours looking at guns, camping stuff, guns, fishing stuff, guns.... Looks like we are going to turkey hunting in October. Hopefully I'll learn to cook a fresh turkey!!
Heather is finishing her courses up quickly. She too is looking for a job.
We are excited to see where God is going to move us - we know it will be in Goodyear - just don't know if we will be able to purchase (our heart's desire) or continue to rent for a while. We can't wait to be closer to church, our friends and for me - closer to work!!
Brian and I have been spending lots of time together just enjoying each other. After twenty years he is still my best friend. We can spend hours talking or not talking. In five weeks we are headed on another cruise - can't wait to be away from everything.
God is so good to us. He holds us close in His arms and loves on us. Who could ask for more. We are blessed!
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Children
It is bittersweet to watch your children grow.
We are so proud of Kara and Tom. Early on they are making wise decisions, not necessarily the fun ones. Today I get to go watch Kara put on a Pampered Chef party. She is willing to work a second job to help them get on their feet and purchase a home. We admire that.
David is making the tough decisions of what to do after graduation. It is fun to walk through the process with him. He is really thinking long term, not a quality often associated with young people.
Praying for our children as God leads them. Pray they will love Him with all their hearts, souls and minds. Pray they will glorify Him in all they do.
God is so good.
We are so proud of Kara and Tom. Early on they are making wise decisions, not necessarily the fun ones. Today I get to go watch Kara put on a Pampered Chef party. She is willing to work a second job to help them get on their feet and purchase a home. We admire that.
David is making the tough decisions of what to do after graduation. It is fun to walk through the process with him. He is really thinking long term, not a quality often associated with young people.
Praying for our children as God leads them. Pray they will love Him with all their hearts, souls and minds. Pray they will glorify Him in all they do.
God is so good.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Plans are Changing
Well, just when we thought it was safe - things changed. God is closing doors to buy a home right now. So we are listening. In a few months we will check it out again and see where He leads.
The cool thing now - we can spend time together. Planning a cruise in a few weeks.... it will be fun and healing. Can't wait to spend time alone together.
We are blessed to have the Lord, to have each other, to have wonderful children, an awesome church. God is good.
The cool thing now - we can spend time together. Planning a cruise in a few weeks.... it will be fun and healing. Can't wait to spend time alone together.
We are blessed to have the Lord, to have each other, to have wonderful children, an awesome church. God is good.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Home Hunting Continued
The search may be coming to an end.... yes, we found a home.
Last weekend we looked at preowned homes ALL day Saturday. After church on Sunday we stopped in and looked at some new homes. Our heads were spinning. After we SOAPed on Sunday we started sharing our thoughts.
God is so good. We are exactly on the same page. In fact, we both picked the same top three homes. Number 1 and 2 were switched. So on Monday, we went back to the one we truly feel God is leading us too. We took pictures and measurements. We talked about improvements and who would have what room. The home feels right.
Our plan is to put an offer in this week. Since it is a short sale we are praying fervently we will be under contract by the end of April (so we can get the tax rebate), then close sometime in May or even June.
Looks like we will have three children with us - David heading to Estrella Mountain Community College, Jay working and Heather healing, doing school and hopefully finding a job so she can get back on her feet.
Now, just need to figure out where the furniture goes!! God is amazing and good and holy and magnificent....
Last weekend we looked at preowned homes ALL day Saturday. After church on Sunday we stopped in and looked at some new homes. Our heads were spinning. After we SOAPed on Sunday we started sharing our thoughts.
God is so good. We are exactly on the same page. In fact, we both picked the same top three homes. Number 1 and 2 were switched. So on Monday, we went back to the one we truly feel God is leading us too. We took pictures and measurements. We talked about improvements and who would have what room. The home feels right.
Our plan is to put an offer in this week. Since it is a short sale we are praying fervently we will be under contract by the end of April (so we can get the tax rebate), then close sometime in May or even June.
Looks like we will have three children with us - David heading to Estrella Mountain Community College, Jay working and Heather healing, doing school and hopefully finding a job so she can get back on her feet.
Now, just need to figure out where the furniture goes!! God is amazing and good and holy and magnificent....
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Valentine's Day Gets Better
Just when I thought it couldn't get better - it does.
Brian, Jay and David are working on David's truck and not fighting! Not only are they not fighting - they are laughing.....
God is good!!
Brian, Jay and David are working on David's truck and not fighting! Not only are they not fighting - they are laughing.....
God is good!!
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Valentine's Day
What an amazing husband I have. Monday he sent me flowers that are absolutely beautiful, last evening we went to dinner at T-Bone up on South Mountain, today he gave me dark chocolate and a foot rub is coming!!!
We have had a blast looking at homes again today. We are waiting for God's timing and continuing to search. But it was so much fun today to hang out. We hit the jackpot at Goodwill for Brian (love half price Saturdays!!) finding four shirts. He bought me the coolest red purse for $2.49.
God has so blessed us!!
We have had a blast looking at homes again today. We are waiting for God's timing and continuing to search. But it was so much fun today to hang out. We hit the jackpot at Goodwill for Brian (love half price Saturdays!!) finding four shirts. He bought me the coolest red purse for $2.49.
God has so blessed us!!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Home Hunting
This is so exasperating. We found an absolutely wonderful home, didn't need much work, big lot, lots of bedrooms.... found out this afternoon it is going to trustee sale on Friday. We want to scream.
Knowing God is in control and getting our arms around it seem to be two different things at the moment. There have been a couple of homes we really liked and they have sold.
So we are excited because if all of these homes we really liked are gone, what is the home God has for us be like? It will have lots of bedrooms, a large kitchen, three car garage, nice backyard, plus stuff we haven't thought of.
God has brought us through so much, He is about ready to bless our socks off. He is so good.
Knowing God is in control and getting our arms around it seem to be two different things at the moment. There have been a couple of homes we really liked and they have sold.
So we are excited because if all of these homes we really liked are gone, what is the home God has for us be like? It will have lots of bedrooms, a large kitchen, three car garage, nice backyard, plus stuff we haven't thought of.
God has brought us through so much, He is about ready to bless our socks off. He is so good.
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Home Hunting
We spent part of today looking at houses. The whole process is driving me nuts. Brian will say "What do you think about....?" to which I reply - "What house are we talking about?".
We have found several homes we like - nothing that screams "I have to have this one!!"
It will be interesting to see how this all works out - will I get the kitchen I want?, will Brian get the garage he wants?, will David end up with a horse? Somehow through all of this David decided he wants a horse....
God is good - He will bring us to the best house for us at just the right time. It is so cool to just rest in His wisdom and realize - we don't have to worry about a thing.
We have found several homes we like - nothing that screams "I have to have this one!!"
It will be interesting to see how this all works out - will I get the kitchen I want?, will Brian get the garage he wants?, will David end up with a horse? Somehow through all of this David decided he wants a horse....
God is good - He will bring us to the best house for us at just the right time. It is so cool to just rest in His wisdom and realize - we don't have to worry about a thing.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Faithful
God is so good to us.
First Vicki has surgery, out of work for seven weeks, then four weeks at part time - full pay through the whole thing. Besides the whole walking without pain is fantastic!
Then Brian has surgery, figured he would be out for six weeks, he gets 60% of his pay. All is good, we can make it through. Then six weeks turns into eight weeks....
But, the faithful Lord we serve has come through. Brian is back at work, the bills are all paid. So we didn't take any fun trips for a while, we didn't go out to eat often, we didn't go to the movies....
We continued tithing, we relearned the joy of playing games with the family and the highlight of every day is SOAPing together.
Perhaps we are experiencing a little taste of heaven.
God is good.
First Vicki has surgery, out of work for seven weeks, then four weeks at part time - full pay through the whole thing. Besides the whole walking without pain is fantastic!
Then Brian has surgery, figured he would be out for six weeks, he gets 60% of his pay. All is good, we can make it through. Then six weeks turns into eight weeks....
But, the faithful Lord we serve has come through. Brian is back at work, the bills are all paid. So we didn't take any fun trips for a while, we didn't go out to eat often, we didn't go to the movies....
We continued tithing, we relearned the joy of playing games with the family and the highlight of every day is SOAPing together.
Perhaps we are experiencing a little taste of heaven.
God is good.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
New Home
It is so exciting - we are within months of our new home. No, we don't know where it is yet, but God is getting it ready for us.
We are spending time looking at paint colors, flooring, doors and spas. Not sure what we will need - but we must be prepared.
So cool to know God has us in the palm of His hand. He will open doors as they need to be open, not necessarily when we want them open!! Guess that is what walking in faith is all about.
God is so good!
We are spending time looking at paint colors, flooring, doors and spas. Not sure what we will need - but we must be prepared.
So cool to know God has us in the palm of His hand. He will open doors as they need to be open, not necessarily when we want them open!! Guess that is what walking in faith is all about.
God is so good!
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Marriage
It is so amazing to be married to your best friend. After twenty years we still have a blast together.
We have such a busy weekend planned - celebrating Brian's birthday by going to the Home Show, going to a potluck with our Tres Dias friends on Saturday evening, spending all the time we can together in between.
God is showering us with blessings - can't wait to see what 2010 is going to bring. Whatever happens - we have each other, awesome friends and family and serve the risen Savior.
Even though the darkness is trying to interfere in our lives - we grasp hold of the truth - GOD WINS!!
We have such a busy weekend planned - celebrating Brian's birthday by going to the Home Show, going to a potluck with our Tres Dias friends on Saturday evening, spending all the time we can together in between.
God is showering us with blessings - can't wait to see what 2010 is going to bring. Whatever happens - we have each other, awesome friends and family and serve the risen Savior.
Even though the darkness is trying to interfere in our lives - we grasp hold of the truth - GOD WINS!!
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Colorado
What an awesome New Year.
This is the view from our Colorado home.... Okay, not our home, the home of Brian's spiritual parents - Rex and Joyce. We drove up and spent three days being loved on, laughing, eating, learning more about the Lord. It was a mountaintop experience.
Vicki, being a city girl who loves the country, was amazed to see a snow storm (even when we got stuck at the 
bottom of the hill going up to the house!), to watch the birds feed, see deer and have the temperature not go above 28!
bottom of the hill going up to the house!), to watch the birds feed, see deer and have the temperature not go above 28!Pretty sure we haven't slept that soundly in a very long time.
Reminded us of how important our relationships are - we will be back in Colorado soon.
God is so good.
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